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Why You Need to Stop Hiding Your Creativity

Bring your creativity out of hiding

For way too long, creativity took second place to my ‘real’ life. Like most of you reading this, there was a family to raise, relationships to nurture and a living to make.

A year ago I was devouring  Brene Brown’s book “Daring Greatly” and decided to embrace her concept of “Wholeheartedness” as a way to live. I had no idea at the time it would lead me to a completely new life by the ocean in Nova Scotia. 

The journey wasn’t easy

The greatest casualties of a scarcity culture are our willingness to own our vulnerabilities and our ability to engage with the world from a place of worthiness. — Brene Brown

It’s a conscious choice to live wholeheartedly and trust myself. Every single day it takes awareness and commitment and work. However, as I rebuilt my ‘intuition muscle’, a surprising thing happened.

I found my creative voice

As my creative practice evolves, so does my perception and focus. I no longer ask “What will I make today?” Instead, the question has become, “What do I want to say today?”

That may sound kind of serious and heady but it’s not meant to be. My life these days is fun and fulfilling. I think that’s because I get to choose how I wield my creative superpowers.

quiltSome days the answer to what I want to say is simply “I love you”. That might be expressed as a quilt to for a family member or the painting of a shared memory.

Other times I want to share how something made me feel. That’s when I bring out my paints or sit down to write. In other words, my creativity, no matter how I choose to express it, is about communicating something and connecting with someone.

My husband expresses his creativity by putting delicious meals on the table and making updates to our home. I have friends who build successful businesses as their creative outlet. The point is, each one of us is unique and we each have something different and wonderful to add this mix called life.

Here’s what I believe

The world needs you to be your one-of-a-kind self and not a carbon copy of some guru or expert. Your wholehearted creativity should be a primary goal of our lives, not just an ‘add-on’ when there’s time.

Embrace the practice (and not perfection) of wholehearted creative expression and you’ll stopped feeling guilty about using your gifts to say what you want to say.

Creativity is an expression of love

Once you start asking yourself “What do I want to say today”, creativity becomes who you ARE.  (That’s why I believe creative people never retire.)

Creativity changes our own lives and those closest to us because, at its core, creativity is vulnerable. The willingness to be vulnerable is an act of love and courage, which is a pretty powerful way to live a life.

Taken all the way, creative expressions can even shake up the status quo by shining a light on where something is out of whack. It’s no coincidence that oppressive governments often try to silence the artists and writers in their countries. They understand the power of creativity to make people think and question.

Any form of art is a form of power; it has impact, it can affect change. It can not only move us, it makes us move. — Ossie Davis

Creative power is an expression of hopegive it a try

It’s not always about earth-shattering paradigm shifts and political agendas.

When I paint, it’s usually to say, “Gosh! Will you look at that! I want to share this moment with you.”

Painting beauty is my antidote to the negativity that’s so prevalent these days. It’s my personal way of pushing back when others try to divide us with talk of carnage and “us vs them”.

If there’s beauty and we both appreciate it, then we’ve found common ground for conversation. Who knows what else we’ll find in common!

So yes, I believe we need to stop hiding our creative gifts, how ever we choose to express them. As creatives, we also need to support each other because it can be a scary world out there. Having a tribe behind you certainly helps.

That’s why I started The Creative Fire Cafe on Facebook. It’s free and it’s waiting for you.  It’s all about connection, conversation and claiming our unique way of navigating the world. We’d love to have you join us! Just click on the button below and ask to join. (It’s only “Closed” to keep out spammers and trolls.)

https://www.facebook.com/groups/CreativeFireCafe/

You know, I’m beginning to see a Creative Manifesto developing here.

 

12 thoughts on “Why You Need to Stop Hiding Your Creativity

  1. “What do I want to say today?” What a powerful question! Thank you for this, Aprille and for your willingness to put yourself out there and foster community. Your courage gives me courage.

    1. You’re so welcome, Victoria. I love that question as well. It changes so much for me. It takes me past doing something for applause and gets me closer to my own creative heart.
      And I’m so grateful that my journey introduced me to you and your own creative work. You inspire me!

  2. I am so grateful that you share the beauty of your creativity with the world, Aprille!

    1. Thank you, Alicja. I know you have a lot of creative insight to share as well and I’d love to see more of it!

  3. Love this article! I can hardly wait to see what will come up for us in March!

    1. Can’t wait! We’re going to have a lot of creative fun!

  4. Hello Aprille,

    I have come across your creative work through Changemaker’s and look forward to growing with you and the other beautiful women in this group!

    I love… “What do I want to say today?”

    What came to me as I read your post was “I can be me…I have a supportive community of other creatives that started their journey with the same burning desire as I have! I am loving, I am giving, I have a voice and our world needs me more now than ever!

    1. Hi Camille! I love connecting with other creative women, for exactly the reasons you say here. The world needs us and our creative courage desperately. It sure helps to have a supportive community behind us when our burning desire asks us to get out of our comfort zone! I’m so glad you found your way here.

  5. […] We create in order to communicate. The right time to share is when your work feels done (or at least complete for now). […]

  6. Aprille,you always give us so much food-for- thought. I have never thought of myself as being creative,but now I feel as if I should re-consider.
    Kep on soaring!

  7. Aprille,you always give us so much food-for- thought. I have never thought of myself as being creative,but now I feel as if I should re-consider.
    Keep on soaring!

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