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Don’t Compare

Don't Compare

I came across something this past week that reminded of an Aha I had while viewing the Matisse exhibit a few years back.

I can’t compare my rough drafts with someone else’s finished masterpiece.

Yet I fall victim to this all the time and people in my workshops often do the same thing. We’re too hard on ourselves. We forget we aren’t seeing the process and the experiments of the masters. We don’t ever see the bits and pieces lying in closets, sitting on a hard drive or consigned to the trash.

Our work is as unique as our signature and that comparison can be helpful. I never worry that my signature doesn’t look like someone else’s. It doesn’t even cross my mind. (Not to mention that would be illegal.)

That’s why we shouldn’t compare our efforts to the person sitting next to us in a workshop or even worse, hanging in a gallery. We are learning about tools and techniques, just like we did in school as we learned to sign our names. Be gentle with your inner artist.

There IS a lot to learn by studying the work of others who have mastered their craft. Just don’t try to BE them.

Let’s be ourselves

So next time my inner voice says “I wish I could paint like…” I’ll remind myself that it’s better if I let myself paint like me.

 

 

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Muse Flash: Tell the Story

Tell a story

We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time. T. S. Eliot

Choosing the head or the heart

I have to watch myself or I get too “heady” when I’m painting and I forget to tell a story. My background in designing computer systems may have something to do with that.

We like sheepFor that reason, I’m consciously painting “looser” these days. I try to avoid realism, not because it can’t be a story but for me, it becomes an exercise in skill, not story.

Loose, however, is not easy. My Inner Perfectionist wants it to look like a photo. (So does my husband, who just doesn’t ‘get’ anything else.)

To help break away, I’m experimenting with acrylics, bigger brushes, pouring and other mediums such as collage. I’m kicking myself because I gave away all my encaustic supplies before we moved. (Note to self: NEVER give away art supplies.)

As I play with these new (to me) materials, my inner dialog goes something like, ” What am I curious about? What do I feel? What do I want this to say…wait…that doesn’t look real…Oh, right. Back to story.”

Ask the right questions

The trick seems to be sticking with the right questions. The ones about heart, emotion, meaning and story. Doing a piece that is technically well-executed feels…well…satisfying and when I let it, the detailed work pulls me in. The problem is, it doesn’t share anything about me except that I know how to handle a brush and familiar medium.

So I’m on a quest to reach deeper and deeper. To tell a story with my art. To let my inner artist out more and more.

I may end up back where I started but I’m hoping the journey will teach me how to tell my story on a heart to heart level. That’s the powerful kind of art I long to make.

What are you exploring? What story do you want to share?

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15 Reasons Why I Believe Creative Expression is Vital

Recently I asked myself these questions, “Why do I believe so passionately that creative expression is a sacred trust? Why do I believe it’s vital to leading a full life?”

It wasn’t always like that

I grew up around people who taught taking time to paint and draw was a frivolous use of a precious resource. The leaders of the church I attended taught fiction was like telling lies. Dire warnings that following my own path threatened the natural order of the universe. People I respected told me creativity was highly suspect and safer to steer clear.

Why the next thing you knew, I’d be thinking independantly!

Not my truth

Is it any wonder I felt confused? What I heard didn’t line up with inner wisdom.

It was years before I realized those message told me more about the messengers and not about truth. Their words and warnings reflected warped belief systems, disappointed dreams and their own legacy of distorted messages.

Creative expression or follow the herd

Then one day, I challenged those messages.

Choosing my own path of creative expression

So here I am. Passionately devoted to my own creative path as well as to helping others find theirs.

Today I ask why is that so important to me? Why do I feel words like “sacred trust” are accurate?

Like I always do when I reflect, I turned to my journal and made a list.

 

In no particular order, here it is:

1. Creativity helps us uncover our own truth. It reveals us to ourselves and ultimately, to others.

2. Leading a creative life leaves a mark that says “I was here”. It creates a legacy.

3. Creativity is a form of meditation. When we are in ‘flow’, time disappears. In our chaotic, fast-paced society, this is rare and valuable.

4. As an antidote to our frenetic modern life, anything that reduces our stress offers health benefits.

5. What we are creatively passionate about reveals something to us about our core values.

6.  Anything that nourishes our soul is a positive response to all the negativity that surrounds us these days.

7.  It’s our birthright. We are all born creative. How we express that creativity is unique to each of us.

8. Creativity is a source of personal power. It’s our voice.

9. Creative expression can be a powerful form of protest and activism. Despots and dictators have good reason to be afraid of creative expression.

10. It’s a powerful way to teach without preaching. Let your creations do the talking.

11. Creativity connects us. We find others on the same path as us or we discover intersections and enhance each others’ journey.

12. Creative expression makes us more aware of the world around us.  (When I sketch something I know it in a more intimate way than a mere glance offers.)

13. It expands our world. Think of what we owe to inventors, innovators, photographers, chefs, gardeners, etc, etc .

14. Play. The world needs less seriousness and more joy.

15. Creative living offers the satisfaction of being fully alive, using our gifts.

What did I miss?

Help me to add to this list by replying in the comments.

I’m including a pdf of 15 Reasons to Be Creative. Click the link to download. No need to sign up for anything.

Post it by your desk or in your studio. Share it with anyone who is struggling against old messaging to find their path.

It’s that important.

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Why You Need to Stop Hiding Your Creativity

Bring your creativity out of hiding

For way too long, creativity took second place to my ‘real’ life. Like most of you reading this, there was a family to raise, relationships to nurture and a living to make.

A year ago I was devouring  Brene Brown’s book “Daring Greatly” and decided to embrace her concept of “Wholeheartedness” as a way to live. I had no idea at the time it would lead me to a completely new life by the ocean in Nova Scotia. 

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